Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Thankful

There are many things in my life I am thankful for. In addition to the traditional things, I'm thankful that I'm gay. Being gay has opened my life to experiences I would never have had as a straight white male. I might have never seen the bigotry that seems inherent in organized religion. I might never have felt compassion and sympathy for minorities (racial, sexual, and any others) in the world. I might have grown up an ignorant, closed-minded, soulless individual. Thankfully, I didn't. I grew up gay, I survived to see adulthood, and I'm fortunate to have loving family and friends. And I am honored that others call me friend. To my friends, via blog and otherwise, I thank you for being yourselves and accepting me into your lives. May you have a warm, fun, and safe holiday weekend.

18 Comments:

Blogger Lemuel said...

beautiful, Doug!

Thank YOU for being a part of our lives. You make each of our lives richer for being in them.

HUGS and happy Thanksgiving!

11/22/2006 03:51:00 PM  
Blogger GayProf said...

If you weren't gay, you also would not have had sex with men. Aren't you thankful for that as well? ;-)

Happy Thanksgiving!

11/22/2006 04:15:00 PM  
Blogger Spider said...

And here is hoping you and Chris have a happy, warm and loving Thanksgiving also... enjoy the weekend!

11/22/2006 06:38:00 PM  
Blogger Cincy Diva said...

Many years ago I was approached by a Native American shman who told me that I was a sacred being ( I am transgendered) and that I should never be ashamed of who I am. I was dealing with a lot at the time and that really helped me thru it. I think we are all sacred in our own right. I thank you for allowing us a glimpse of your sacredness. Have a great Holiday!

11/22/2006 06:41:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am thankful that i am gay as well.. i coulnd't have found someone who completes me more... Low gives me lovin, livin, and laughter.

11/22/2006 07:40:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

and a happy 'thanksgiving' to younz southerners too.

11/22/2006 07:41:00 PM  
Blogger Doug said...

Awwww now I am all misty eyed. I am glad you are a friend too!!!

11/22/2006 08:42:00 PM  
Blogger jimmmij said...

What an amazing thing to be thankful for. This was a great post! You couldnt have said what my heart feels about the whole "gay thing" any better. Happy THanksgiving to you and your family.

11/22/2006 10:31:00 PM  
Blogger Rian said...

Wow! Very touching post for Thanksgiving. I guess I should be more thankful myself.

Have a great holiday weekend!

11/23/2006 07:01:00 AM  
Blogger TigerYogi said...

Happy Thanksgiving to you too, Hon! :)

11/23/2006 09:21:00 AM  
Blogger Timmy said...

Happy Turkey Day!!

11/23/2006 10:24:00 AM  
Blogger TWISI said...

Wonderful sentiment...Happy Thanksgiving to all!

11/23/2006 11:56:00 AM  
Blogger shaikai said...

It's so great that accepting what you are has been food for your soul. That's what make me think sometimes that there are, surprisingly, many heterosexuals who don't really accept what they are as men who like women, and so that forces them to pretend to be what they are not (v.g., a 'macho man').

11/23/2006 06:51:00 PM  
Blogger The Persian said...

Happy Thanksgiving Doug!

*Persian Hugs*

11/23/2006 07:28:00 PM  
Blogger Spider said...

I sure hope you and Chris had the GREATEST of Thanksgivings! Big turkey hugs!

11/23/2006 08:07:00 PM  
Blogger Mikey said...

Lots of HUGS Happy Thankgiving!!!

11/23/2006 08:59:00 PM  
Blogger kevin said...

Your post today was really good. Your words are so right and true.

Wishing you a very happy thanksgiving Day doug,

Kev in NZ

11/23/2006 11:08:00 PM  
Blogger Jack said...

I'm sorry I missed this Wednesday.

But I'm glad I read it today.

I think a lot like you on all of these.

I guess I've been living it all my life that I just don't see it anymore. I live it.

Thank you Doug.

11/25/2006 08:40:00 AM  

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